HE AIN'T HEAVY
(HE'S MY BROTHER)
By John R. Funk
When I was growing up in the 60's and 70's, there was a song
by the name of (you guessed it) "He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother"
by the Hollies. It was a hit song of that era and originally came from the
motto for Boys Town located in Omaha, Nebraska. Boys Town was founded by
Father Edward Flanagan in 1917 as a home for troubled or homeless boys.
The inspiration for the motto came in 1941 when Father Flanagan came across
a drawing of a boy carrying a younger boy on his back with that motto as
the caption. Father Flanagan received permission to erect a statue of the
drawing with the inscription, "He ain't heavy Father, he's my brother."
It became the logo for Boys Town. The logo was updated in 1979 with the
addition of a girl carrying a younger girl.
The Two Brothers concept preceded the drawing that Father
Flanagan saw. Originally, in 1921, there was a young boy at Boys Town who
had difficulty walking due to leg braces. Other boys would take turns giving
him a ride on their backs. There is actually a famous photograph of this
young boy and another one of the boys giving him a ride.
So what does this story have to do with the Christian life?
It is directly applicable to the Christian and the duty to bear each other
up under the burdens of life. If it is applicable, then what does this duty
really mean? In the Book of Galatians, Paul states:
2 Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law
of Christ. Gal. 6:2 (KJV)
The phrase "bear ye" comes from the word "bastazo
(bas-tad'-zo)" meaning to lift, literally or figuratively to endure,
declare, sustain or receive. (See Strong's Greek-Hebrew Dictionary NT:941).
This command goes far beyond the idea of just sympathizing or even empathizing
with someone who is subject to the problems or trials that come with life.
It literally means what it says; that is, we are to stand shoulder-to-shoulder,
side-by-side, with our brothers and sisters in Christ and endure those burdens
with them.
The translation then carries the idea even further by stating
that this word also encompasses the idea of lifting those burdens from them.
We are to carry the load with them. By doing so, we receive that load and
sustain our fellow believers during their times of hardship.
There is another meaning to this word that is intriguing.
It is the idea of declaring. Declaring conveys the idea of stating with
authority, i.e. as a truthful statement. There are many times in life that
our Christian brothers and sisters are persecuted or criticized for their
beliefs and it is during these times that we, as fellow believers, should
"declare" our unity and our shared belief in Jesus Christ as "the
way, the truth and the life." This particular burden may be even more
difficult than the actual physical and financial burdens that we face in
life. This burden exposes us to possible ridicule and rejection. It is a
burden that goes against what all of us want in life and that is to be accepted
by those around us. When you step out and declare your faith, you may endanger
that very desire.
The word "burden" is derived from the word "baros (bar'-os)"
meaning a load, abundance, authority or weight. (See Strong's Greek-Hebrew
Dictionary, NT:922). This idea of a burden doesn't just apply to a physical
load but rather seems to cover the entire gamut of possible problems. When
I read this definition, I envision the picture of Atlas with the weight
of the world on his shoulders. There are times in life when it literally
seems that we have the weight of the world on our shoulders and there is
no one there to help us shoulder that burden. Those are the times when we
as fellow believers need to step in and help.
The idea of helping another with the burdens of life brings
up another issue. That issue is the willingness of the person burdened to
allow someone to help. We have grown up with the idea of being independent
and self-reliant; we need to be strong when we have problems. We shouldn't
have to rely on others to help us deal with our issues. What a bunch of
baloney!! That is nothing but pride speaking. Burdens are meant to be shared
and, consequently, are much lighter when they are. We are not destined to
be prideful but rather we are to be humble. Humility means accepting the
fact that there are things in life that we cannot and should not handle
on our own. Additionally, by failing or refusing to accept help, we deprive
others from the blessings of bearing each other up. Enough said; just don't
do it. Allow others to help.
Finally, the law of Christ is the law of love. When confronted
with an issue concerning the greatest of commandments, Jesus Christ responded
with an answer that left nothing more to be said.
34 But when the Pharisees had heard that he had put the Sadducees to
silence, they were gathered together. 35 Then one of them, which was a lawyer,
asked him a question, tempting him, and saying,36 Master, which is the great
commandment in the law? 37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord
thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like unto
it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 40 On these two commandments
hang all the law and the prophets. Matt. 22:34-40 (KJV)
Bearing each other's burdens is fulfilling the second commandment,
i.e. loving your neighbor as yourself. By doing so, we are evidencing the
love of Jesus Christ. This command of Jesus Christ is not just contained
in the Gospel account but is also declared in other books of the Bible.
9 For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt
not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou
shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended
in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling
of the law. Rom. 13:9-10 (KJV)
14 For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. Gal. 5:14 (KJV)
8 If ye fulfil the royal law according to the scripture, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself, ye do well: James 2:8 (KJV)
Jesus also gave a practical example of this kind of love when
He posed the following pertaining to the final judgment
34 Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand,
Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from
the foundation of the world: 35 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat:
I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:
36 Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison,
and ye came unto me. 37 Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord,
when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?38
When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
39 Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?40 And the
King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as
ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done
it unto me. Matt. 25:34-40 (KJV)
This is a true example of bearing another's burdens and these
verses and the verses following go to the idea of "sins of omission"
as opposed to "sins of commission." In other words, if you know
that you should do something to fulfill the law of Christ (see Matt. 22:39
above) but fail to do so, have you sinned? I respectfully submit that you
have according to Matt. 25:41-46. The failure to live out the love of Christ
violates that law just as much as committing a sin against another.
We see the idea of bearing another's burden vividly illustrated
in the account of Christ's sacrifice on the cross. Although he did not assume
the burden willingly at first, the ultimate act of assumption demonstrates
fulfillment of the love.
32 And as they came out, they found a man of Cyrene, Simon
by name: him they compelled to bear his cross. Matt. 27:32 (KJV)
Simon of Cyrene had the privilege and honor of carrying the
burden of the cross prior to Christ's crucifixion. At the time and from
a physical perspective, I am sure that it did not seem like a privilege
and honor. However, from a spiritual perspective it was truly special. Likewise,
when we bear the burdens of another, it is very special from a spiritual
perspective.
The ultimate example of bearing another's burdens is shown
by the sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross at Calvary. The sole purpose
of Him going to the cross was to assume and bear the sins of all mankind.
He took those sins upon Himself as the perfect sacrifice, as the Lamb of
God, as the Son of Man. When you think about the possible reasons why Jesus
came from heaven to suffer this ignominious end, there can only be one reason.
That reason was to fulfill the second greatest commandment - loving His
neighbor as Himself (actually more than Himself). There was no one else
who could bear this burden. There was no one else suitable for this job.
He was the only alternative. He was the only One with shoulders big enough
to assume the load. He was the only perfect sacrifice.
In conjunction with the idea of bearing one another's burdens
is the idea of not laying burdens on others. This doesn't seem to be reconcilable
at first glance but it is two different ideas. Jesus Christ, in addressing
the religious leaders of His day, spoke to this issue.
46 And he said, Woe unto you also, ye lawyers! for ye lade
men with burdens grievous to be borne, and ye yourselves touch not the burdens
with one of your fingers. Luke 11:46 (KJV)
The burdens that He was alluding to were the burdens under
the law that the Pharisees heaped upon the people. Those burdens were used
to assert power, authority and control over the masses. These were not the
burdens of life brought on by the circumstances of life but rather, were
artificially created burdens that were in direct contravention of the law
of Christ, i.e. the law of love.
Many times it seems that it is practically impossible to actually
assume the burdens of another. How can we literally assume physical problems
experienced by another? The answer is that there are times when we can't
literally assume those problems but there is another way to bear each other
up in times of difficulty. That bearing up takes the form of prayer, encouragement,
comforting and exhortation.
16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one
for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of
a righteous man availeth much. James 5:16 (KJV)
11 Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify
one another, even as also ye do. 1 Thess. 5:11 (KJV)
13 But exhort one another daily, while it is called
To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.
Heb. 3:13 (KJV)
While these are not foreign concepts, how often do we actually
practice what we preach? Life is busy; there are things to do, places to
go and people to see. I have always heard that if Satan cannot make you
sin, he will make you busy. Life rushes on and what do we accomplish that
is eternal?
I wish I could see the headlines in the "Heaven Daily
Press." I suspect the notable news stories would be much different
from what we read on a daily basis here. I can imagine the leading story
being something like "Joe Smith Comforts Neighbor in Distress,"
or "Jane Smith Prays for Friend." I believe the eternal perspective
is much different than the temporal one.
Finally, as we know, Satan's time is short. He "goes
around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." Satan also
knows his time is short. During that time and leading up to the Rapture
of the saints, troubles will be on the increase. Jesus spoke of the signs
of the times (Matt. 24:3-8) and how these signs would increase. Take time
to read the paper. We see tragedy on every page. We live with fear and foreboding.
What should we do? What can we do?
25 Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together,
as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more,
as ye see the day approaching. Heb. 10:25 (KJV)
15 For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that
we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent
them which are asleep. 16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven
with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God:
and the dead in Christ shall rise first: 17 Then we which are alive and
remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the
Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. 18 Wherefore comfort
one another with these words. 1 Thess. 4:15-18 (KJV)
Our witness to the world and to each other is evidenced by
what we say and, more importantly, by what we do. You have heard "Do
you walk the walk or do you just talk the talk?" My question to you:
Do you do both and fulfill the law of Christ? I hope so, especially during
these end times.
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